Susah ke nak cakap Thank You atau Sorry ?
Dont u feel it matters to express that when u did any wrong or even not .
Dont u feel it matters when someone do good to you or put some efforts on you or do anything that they deserve your appreciation ?
Saying thanks or sorry doesnt waste any money or time. Just say it. Lower your ego and make those two words as habit . You wont know how glad the people are to receive such words :)
Actually , I was really upset with a friend. Im not good in describing people and assuming what she likes or dislikes. whether she is satisfied or not. whether she is happy or not. whether she misses me or not. So, I as always *think positive* "maybe die ni jenis yg tak reti tunjuk kot. tp die nak bekawan ng aku.tapi die jenis malu2 n nak aku yg kickstart dulu since ak kan jenis yg kurang malu gituh "
Pada awalnya macam kuat lagi la , macam takpe Ain, sabar2 . lain orang lain perangai . I try to understand many people. cope with different kind of people . But somehow, lau sikit2 tu tahan lagi, tapi when it reached the utmost level , rase macam nak give up berkawan. tapi aku tak pernah pon putus kawan ng orang.and nanti nampak macam aku la yang desertedkan kawan .So , aku still layan baik lagi dia. but I dont know whether she realizes or not that im showing my efforts to befriend with her. I don know whether she realizes that I never forget her.
Somehow, a friend of mine told me not to terhegeh hegeh. and then I realized that aku ni bertepuk sebelah tangan. boleh jadi dia dah tak nak rapat ng aku. boleh jadi dia dah jumpa kawan yang lagi selesa. Yela, semua orang macam tu. akan jumpa new friends yg boleh jd lagi rapat.Same goes with me. So I hope that she is not mad with me when I no longer ajak makan minum or what so ever anymore. Since, shes having a better friend , Im fine. I will be happier to see shes happier. But Im sorry for all this while if she wasnt so happy with me. But, please know that I did try to make her happy, make her feel appreciated . Yes, I failed. But at least, say Thanks for my efforts. Aku buat benda bukan sebab nak dapat pujian or apa2. But, dapat thanks tu mcm okay la. rase cam what I did wasnt wasteful . Tapi uolls jangan risau, sebab aku dah tak nak fikir sangat pasal tu. Sebab theres so much happy things that i can think and make me smile. I dont like pondering about sad things and distract my mood.